With eyes sparkling, my grandson came to the door, cookie in hand, and grinned through the window. He waved at me with his free hand and then pointed to the cookie.
“Thanks, Bam!” he shouted and with a leap, he was off the deck and on to more important business, but the moment stopped me in my tracks, because his smiling-eyed joy was contagious, and the gift of gratitude he flashed through streaked window glass stayed with me like a benediction.
Joshua Choonmin Kang has put words around my feeling of that day and extended them to probe my own practice of thanksgiving:
“Gratitude is an expression of appreciation, an articulation of what we have received. Like a receipt, our gratitude is evidence of the transaction of grace from God.”
Holding the receipt of my grandson’s gratitude in my hand, I wonder… could it be that what we all need in November of 2020 is a new lexicon for our language of gratitude?
Could it be that what we all need in November of 2020 is a new lexicon for our language of gratitude?
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My grandson’s simple “Thanks, Bam” opens my heart to the need for a more spontaneous expression of gratitude to God. My imagination challenges me to find words to treasure the small things, for the ordinary miracles of cold drinking water and a chair in the sunshine. I want to slow down for prayer and to stake out moments for pondering the latitude of suffering and the longitude of glory that crisscross through my every day.
A spirituality that is founded in gratitude is anchored securely by roots that have been sent deep into God’s love and will result in a life that reflects God’s “image with ever-increasing glory.” Let’s get started…
What are you grateful for today?
Inviting you into the music of gratitude,

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Beyond Awkward Side Hugs by Bronwyn Lea
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Mom Seeks God by Julia Roller
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I clicked follow on all three accounts – Insta, FB, and Twitter. I would love to read Soul Strong. Thanks so much for this opportunity!
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Thanks for the 3X love!
Blessings!
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Hi Michele! I follow you on Facebook 🙂 I think I would first dive into “Making Marriage Beautiful”.
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Sounds like an appropriate choice!
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Ah, yes, you are right! I am grateful for an amazing Christian internist physician whom God used to spare my husband twice in recent months. In June in a pre-op appointment for a surgical procedure by another physician he ordered an EKG without a specific reason that discovered my husband needed a pacemaker for a heart that was often beating too slowly. Last week when our cardiologist was not returning a phone call about symptoms my husband was concerned about for two days, the internist saw him within an hour and he was transported from his office across an interstate to the hospital due to a significant heart issue related to the pacemaker and a medication prescribed the previous week by the cardiologist. This internist of ours starts his day before seeing patients with prayer asking for the Lord to use him to see clearly and recognize issues he must not miss. Grateful – so grateful! He purchased the private practice from our retiring internist several years ago and we were uncertain what we would have in the new doctor whom we had liked. In truth, this new physician is the best doctor we have ever had. Thank you, Lord!
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I love that prayer and it coincides with something I’ve been purposing to say to God more often: “Lord, show me what I need to see.”
“Be thou my vision, Oh, Lord of my heart…”
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Hey Michele, A great invitation to express gratitude in the everyday moments. I was sharing this morning how I’m grateful for old fashioned clocks that don’t automatically change at daylight savings and for accidentally falling asleep putting my daughter to bed…it made me feel like I actually got an extra hour on Sunday and some really great sleep! 😉 What a great book list! I’d probably read Mom Seeks God first. I’m active on IG and followed you there as @lovinlifewithlittles. Have a beautiful weekend!
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Followed you on Instagram. I would like to first read Always There. Thank you for sharing with us.
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Thanks for entering! I wish everyone could win!
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Michele, it’s amazing how often you and I consider the same things. I have recently been thinking about transactions and transactional relationships too. I think while there is considerable evidence in Scripture for us to avoid transactional relationships, (the you-scratch-my-back-I’ll-scratch-yours kind), God’s grace comes to us with no strings attached. Just like the cookie from Bam! 🙂
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Yes, grace like a grandmother’s cookie. And oh, how much we need to receive it and to give it.
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“Spontaneous expression of gratitude to God”…that sure centres our hearts on the present moment. And God calls us to be present with Him always!
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We definitely need centering practices in this season of crazy!
Thanks for reading!
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Michele,
Yes! Spontaneous gratitude! “Thanks, Bam,” from the mouths of babes comes our best examples – even for the simplest of pleasures!
Blessings,
Bev xx
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Continually learning from my kids and grandkids!
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I’m posting my grateful every day on Instagram.
I am already following you everywhere. I think I would read Soul Strong first.
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What a great spiritual practice!
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Michele, “Making Marriage Beautiful” is the title from your list that I would most like to read. Today, I’m grateful that my daughter has deemed her first birthday away from home to be her best one yet. (It stings a bit, too, but I would much prefer that she have a wonderful day than a hard one.) And I have to tell you, out of all the nicknames grandchildren give their grandparents, “Bam” has to be one of the best ones yet!
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Oh, that does sting a bit, doesn’t it…
Hard to realize that they can be so happy without us!
I love the name Bam, too!
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I would probably read Holy in the Suburbs first! I followed on IG.
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Thanks, Leslie!
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Oh we can learn so much from children! I have to say – I am not sure which book I would read as you always share wonderful books. Today I am grateful for sitting in front of a sunny window, My Bible, and my coffee 🙂
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Love those simple blessings!
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…gratitude is an often an overlooked part of life.
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Sure is… we move too fast from one blessing to the next.
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I don’t want to be entered in the giveaway (tiny house and all) but I do want to tell you how special I think you are, Bam. SS
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Right back at ya!
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I followed on Instagram (@6sslkto) and would love to read First Ask Why!
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I’ve followed on IG (@6sslkto) and would love to read First Ask Why! Thanks so much for doing this.
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Thanks for entering!
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Wow! What a collection! I followed you on Twitter and I think I’d probably read No More Fear first.
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Thanks , Lauren!
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[…] living. For the month of November, Michele is encouraging us to rethink and redefine how we express Gratitude in our daily lives. What are you grateful for today? Feel free to share your thoughts in the […]
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Yes, spontaneous expressions of gratitude matter. Very well said and thank you for the much-needed reminder.
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We have so much goodness to thank God for every day!
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Spontaneous expressions of gratitude are the best! Thank you so much for sharing with us at Encouraging Hearts and Home. Pinned.
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Thanks, Joanne!
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So many times we fail to stop and give thanks when we all have something to be thankful for! Such a wonderful and inspiring giveaway! Mythical Me sounds like the first one I would read. Followed you on FB and Twitter but was already following you on Instagram. Thanks so much for linking up at our party – #FaithAndWorshipChristianWeekend 8. Shared.
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Thank YOU, Dee!
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OK – I gotta ask – where did BAM come from? Is it short for anything? I love grandparent names 😉
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Ha! Our older grandson was trying to say “gram,” but it came out as Bam, and I just love it!
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Thank you for such a sweet picture of giving thanks.
I’m following on Facebook and Instagram and would like to start with Beyond awkward side hugs! I’m on a fellowship kick and that sounds like a good one.
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What a great kick to be on!
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Michelle,
Thanks so much for your visits!! As you know, I chose Gratitude for my Word of the Month for November….At the end of each day, I think of 5 things that I am grateful for that day….It is very humbling…
Stay safe and happy!!
Hugs,
Debbie
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I am also resurrecting my gratitude list for the Month of November. Such a wonderfully centering practice!
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I’m grateful today for…Net Galley. 🙂 I thank God that there is such an easy way to get free new books to read more about him and his people and his world. Thanks for how you share the books you read, Michele!
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NetGalley is almost magical!
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What a great giveaway! A “new lexicon for our language of gratitude” – well said. Tweeted!
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Thanks, Wemi!
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Just this morning I recorded in my gratitude journal the blessing of Indian summer and right now I’m sitting on our deck (cozy in my fleece jacket) as I respond to blogger friends. Squirrels chatter, bird twitter, and a deer just paid a brief visit. We’re supposed to have six days of mild temperatures–how delightful is that?
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Sounds just about perfect!
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Often the most powerful glimpses of gratitude are free, like a smile and thanks, Bam. Love this story. One thing I am grateful for today is lunch with my friend. We caught up and laughed a lot.
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We need those girlfriend times, don’t we?
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During this unsettling season, I am choosing gratitude in the simple, almost overlooked things that come into my day. Gratitude definitely changes my attitude!
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I find the same to be true. Thank you for reading!
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I follow you on Instagram. Soul Strong would be my first choice. Thank you for the opportunity.
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I love Lucinda’s work!
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My grandchild isn’t really talking yet, but they give the biggest of smiles when you hand them their drink or food. Thanks for linking with #pocolo and hope to see you back later this week
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Love this!
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“Gratitude is an expression of appreciation, an articulation of what we have received. Like a receipt, our gratitude is evidence of the transaction of grace from God.” I love this quote and the story about your grandson. Thank you for sharing with Grace & Truth. I love having you a part of our community. Maree
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Oh, thanks so much, Maree! It’s great to be part of it!
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Grandchildren are such an amazing gift! “An old man’s joy is his children’s children” I love this message about spontaneous gratitude! I’ve hit the like button on Facebook. Of the listed books, I am most interested in reading “No More Fear” by JoHannah Reardon so that one would probably be first. Thank you for sharing at Tuesdays with a Twist! -Marci @ Stone Cottage Adventures
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Thanks, Marci! I’m so much in agreement with your thoughts on grandchildren.
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Another great post to make us think! It’s so sad to find people who can’t seem to appreciate anything in their lives.
Thanks for sharing your link at ‘My Corner of the World’ this week!
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I agree–we have so much to be thankful for, and it’s tragic when we fail to see it.
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What an inspiring post. A very much needed reminder of my desire to have as you say, a ” spontaneous expression of gratitude to God.” Thanks for linking up with us at the #FaithAndWorshipChristianWeekend 9. I follow you on all 3 and I would like to read “The God Dare”
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Oh, thanks, Sylvia–grateful for your encouragement!
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Gratitude is so important! I must admit, I always thought I was grateful but the pandemic has taught me I had no idea how much more we had to be grateful for. I’m making a real effort to thank God daily for our blessings – and not miss any out! Thank you for sharing, Michele, and for being a part of the Hearth and Soul Link Party.
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I keep praying that I won’t waste this season!
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