It all started as a strategy for outreach. We sat around a table and began to dream out loud, trusting that the fire of shared passion and the wisdom of group process would yield creative ideas for communicating the love of Christ to our community.
I don’t mind confessing that I loved my dream. We would offer free oil changes to those in need: the poor, the elderly, single parents, come one, come all! Coffee and brownies would make the most of the waiting time as those of us less talented with a wrench would fill cups and keep the conversation flowing. We prepared colorful informational brochures about our church and its programs. We bought supplies, spread the word, and waited.
Not one person signed up.
Not one person called to inquire.
The spectacular crash and burn of my dream rang in my ears for a long time. In fact, it was all I could hear, and it was ages before my idea spigot found its way back to the on-position once again.
Tell me, have you had this kind of experience? When failure veers into your perfectly laid plans from out of nowhere, it’s hard to recover–and hard to trust again. I’m sharing my story in full today over at Rachel Lee‘s writing home, and it’s my pure joy to invite you to join me over there for the remainder.
And while you are there…
Rachel is hosting a summer series featuring Stories of Hope from women who have found hope in Christ in the context of suffering, divorce, chronic illness, church hurt, mental illness, and much more. Click here for details about the many topics addressed in the series.
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Crashing and burning has happened to me many times. Heading over to Rachel’s to read the rest…
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I’ll meet you over there!
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OH I agree it can be so hard to recover our confidence after something like that. It sounded like such a great idea too! Thanks so much for sharing with us at Encouraging Hearts and Home. Pinning and clicking over to read the rest.
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Yes, it does play havoc with confidence, and I’m learning that it also heightens my dependence on God, so that’s not a bad trade off…
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This is so beautiful Michele. “Success is not in the result. It’s in the obedience.” What an eye opening truth!
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And we often have a pretty way of defining “success” that has nothing to do with God’s view of success.
So good to hear from you!
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I’ve crashed and burned countless times… but now in hindsight, I see that it always taught me something or led me to something great. Thank you for sharing your story!
x Anastasia | MightyMemos.com
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It’s wonderful that you have been able to discern the lessons behind the fails.
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Headed over now. 🙂
(I loved your idea by the way!)
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Oh, thank you, Rebecca! I thought it was a great idea, too. Who knows?
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I feel like I crash and burn all the time. I love that you discovered that the calling is in the obedience, not in other’s responses.
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And, by grace, we can keep that Truth front and center during both success AND failure!
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What a wonderful idea. I’m surprised you didn’t get any takers. Sometimes it’s the thought that counts!
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I do hope that’s true, Catherine. At the very least, I know that God knows my heart, and my motives were others-centered.
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Heading over to continue reading. Thank you for linking up at Grace & Truth.
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Thanks, Maree!
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I am not sure which of you wrote the prayer but loved this line in it…”May we respond to life’s disappointments in a way that puts your glory on display” as it is what we should each desire! That even when a plan flops we can be confident in the Lord through it all and just keep on like Jeremiah. Michele this is one of those posts that gets tucked right at the forefront of the mind as we know we’ll find ourselves needing this reminder often!
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I try to keep the truth of God’s unconditional acceptance front and center as well, April. So often life disappoints, but God is sovereign and has plans that are unknown to me.
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Michele, yes, I have crashed and burned more than once. Thank God is plans are better than mine. Thanks for linking this post to the #GatheringofFriendsLinkParty 3
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This is such good insight, Sylvia.
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Oh yes, I have lived through this crash and burn several times. I’m excited to savor your full story later! Thanks for sharing this at Booknificent Thursday at Mommynificent.com!
Tina
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Thanks, Tina.
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Thank you for sharing at #ThursdayFavoriteThings. Pinned and shared
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“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” Winston Churchill must have been buddies with Jeremiah! Thanks for sharing with us at The Blogger’s Pit Stop!
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Great Churchill quote! Thanks for the inspiration!
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Thank you for sharing at #OverTheMoon. Pinned and shared.
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