What Happens When You Fight For Genuine Joy In Impossible Circumstances?

What Happens When You Fight For Genuine Joy In Impossible Circumstances?

I had never led a question-and-answer session during any of my past women’s events, but I was looking forward to the experience. I wanted to hear the questions that had bubbled to the surface after a weekend of immersing ourselves in the Bible’s teaching on hope. I wasn’t prepared for the challenging contexts the women faced or the impossible circumstances in which they were trying to fight for joy.

Many were living with devastating health challenges and unimaginable grief. One woman described sandwich generation complications that made my head spin. Even the most compassionate presentation of sound theology can sound harsh and heartless when hope has been bleeding out for years. The path to joy and peace may be simple, but it’s not always easy:

Trust in the Lord, and do good;
Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.” (Psalm 37:3)

We “feed on His faithfulness” by remembering his record of trustworthy dealings with us in the past. Then we acknowledge his sovereignty and his goodness. He has the right to call the shots, and we can be sure that he has our best interests in mind.

We can trust that the impossible circumstances we’re facing have been hand-picked for our good and for God’s glory. Naturally, this doesn’t justify cold and insensitive treatment of those in crisis, but it’s the only answer that makes sense of our suffering in the long run. Elisabeth Elliot wrote, “I’m convinced that there are a good many things in this life that we really can’t do anything about, but that God wants us to do something with.”1

“I’m convinced that there are a good many things in this life that we really can’t do anything about, but that God wants us to do something with.” Elisabeth Elliot

Feed on His Faithfulness

Michele Howe discovered the comfort of feeding on God’s faithfulness when a long season of multiple losses and health challenges left her soul exhausted. Fear was the enemy that stole her rest, and stability seemed to be a relic from another era.

Howe’s fight for joy required a muscular commitment to remembering God’s faithfulness in the past, a dogged determination to find evidence of his faithfulness in the present moment, and a childlike trust for the future because God would be there to meet her in whatever was waiting for her there.

She brings that gritty determination to the pages of Fight for Joy, a collection of thirty devotional readings designed to fuel the believer’s commitment to wait in faith while God does the work that needs to be accomplished. When suffering has stolen all the oxygen in the room, we breathe grace when we run to our loving Heavenly Father for comfort. With scriptural clarity and practical sensitivity, Howe urges her readers to become deeply rooted in godly community, to maintain spiritual disciplines as a lifeline, and to be patient in the long wilderness of waiting.

Acceptance of God’s appointment—even when it’s a dis-appointment—is step one of the journey toward lasting joy. “Joy everlasting. Joy overflowing. Joy in abundance and joy that cannot be dimmed or diminished by life’s circumstances. And let’s be honest. Isn’t that what we all desire?”2

With scriptural clarity and practical sensitivity, Michele Howe points the way to “joy in abundance and joy that cannot be dimmed or diminished by life’s circumstances.” @reviewermom @CLCMinistriesUS #FightforJoy

What Other Reviewers Are Saying

Howe addresses the too-often Christian notion that we will have a life of continuous joy when, in fact, we must fight for it. She shares authentic experiences and reminds us of God’s presence in each one. The reminders are perfect for anyone who is going through troubling times. I can think of many times when it would’ve ministered to me, and I’m sure it will in the future. This book, which is sure to be a Christian classic, ought to be a resource for every counselor and pastor so they can share its wisdom. ― Gail Cawley Showalter, Author of Living, Learning, Loving

Holding You in the Light,

  1. Suffering is Never for Nothing, Elisabeth Elliot, 2019 ↩︎
  2. Fight for Joy, Michele Howe, 2025 ↩︎

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10 thoughts on “What Happens When You Fight For Genuine Joy In Impossible Circumstances?”

  1. I am sure we all have faced, and will face times in which we must fight for joy. I have never seen Psalm 37:3 in those words but there it was, in a little footnote in my Bible – “feed securely on His faithfulness.” That is a nugget of gold worth holding onto!

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  2. I’ve never thought of fighting for joy before. It always comes linked with peace . . . and the other fruit of the spirit. And I find if I look deep enough, even in the most unsettling experiences, it’s there. It hasn’t left.

    Happiness? That’s a whole other story.

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  3. The quest for God’s joy – and how to live joy when those I love are in hard challenges – I have been searching and researching that for a few years. It sounds like a book I need to read in that quest.

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