How does one live well before God amid life’s challenges? Most of our decisions have to be made on the fly—like taking a test we haven’t studied for! Sometimes, the wise course of action is hard to discern, and making a call is impossible until the choice and its consequences are already in the rearview mirror.
The Bible won’t tell you who to date, which car to buy, where to go to college, or whether to accept the job offer on the West Coast. It does, however, offer principles to live by, guard rails to keep readers on the path of wisdom, and much of the Bible’s coaching in astute living is found in its Wisdom Literature, specifically the books of Job, Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and the Song of Solomon.
Casual readers of the Bible tend to neglect this section except for a few cherry-picked, feel-good verses that end up on coffee mugs and couch pillows. Twenty-first-century readers aren’t comfortable with the style of writing, and let’s be honest: sometimes the content is confusing, depressing, or just plain weird.
The Bible won’t tell you who to date, which car to buy, where to go to college, or whether to accept the job offer on the West Coast. It does, however, offer principles to live by, guard rails to keep readers on the path of wisdom.
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May I offer two reading strategies that are helping me to get wisdom from the Lord through his Word, the true source of all wisdom?
1. Principles, Not Promises
Disappointed parents often go to great lengths to find comfort when their adult children go off the rails. Desperate for any kind of encouragement, they go straight to Proverbs 22:6, reasoning that they had trained their child in the way he should go and claiming a promise that he will, therefore, not depart from it. We misread God’s words in the Bible’s wisdom literature when we start fashioning promises out of principles.
As much as we might wish for it, believers are not provided with Teflon umbrellas at conversion. On a fallen planet, we don’t get a guarantee that we won’t get cancer or that our kids and grandkids will all be accepted to the college of their choice.
Having said that, there’s a principle to be followed in Proverbs 22:6, for we can be reasonably certain that if we don’t train our children, the culture will do it for us and we won’t be pleased with the outcome.
2. Life Illumines Scripture as Scripture Illumines Life
When Proverbs seems to contradict itself, what are we to do? Here’s the most common example:
Do not answer a fool according to his folly,
Lest you also be like him.
Answer a fool according to his folly,
Lest he be wise in his own eyes.” (Proverbs 26:4-5)
This is an example of a time when we need to bring discernment to our reading. Sometimes wisdom keeps its mouth shut. If you dignify the rantings of a social media troll by adding to the argument, you become like him.
But what if the foolishness is pouring out of the mouth of a friend or a grandchild? There are times when we have a responsibility to extinguish foolishness with truth like a firehose. Knowing the difference is the essence of wisdom.
Wisdom is the principal thing;
Therefore get wisdom.
And in all your getting, get understanding.” (Proverbs 4:7)
Ethics are not situational, but often wisdom is. How we apply biblical principles depends on the moment. Many of the choices we agonize over are actually morally neutral, and our longing for moral clarity is evidence that we were designed for fellowship with our all-wise Creator.
Reading the hard and seemingly contradictory parts of the Bible requires wisdom—but it yields the gift of more wisdom. Instead of seeing the wisdom words as right unpleasant books full of obscure aphorisms and requirements as unforgiving as gravity, wisdom brings patience for a careful reading. By grace, we practice perseverance for a long view in the life-long commitment to get wisdom.
Holding You in the Light,

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Reading the hard and seemingly contradictory parts of the Bible requires wisdom—but it yields the gift of more wisdom. By grace, we practice perseverance for a long view in the life-long commitment to #GetWisdom.
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I have found that wisdom doesn’t just “magically” impart itself on me; I need to be diligent about seeking it out (and then following where it leads).
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That’s a great point! No free lunch when it comes to wisdom acquisition!
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I decided to add an additional comment since I came across your post a second time.
LOVE THIS…”Life Illumines Scripture as Scripture Illumines Life.”
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You are DOUBLY kind! Thanks for pointing out what speaks to you!
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Good words! I guess it comes down to seeking and acquiring the discipline of reading the spirit of the word and not just the letter. I recently read an interesting essay by a minister on the subtle difference between these two with focus on 2 Corinthians 3:6. I know I personally had to be more mature in the spirit before I could read a Scripture for the 10th time and suddenly see a new deeper meaning. The catch is – we cannot know what we don’t know but when it comes to wisdom we often get the sound of crickets when trying to share what we do know.
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These are all great insights and I can’t help but think that the wisdom they rise from is hard won…💕
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Our pastor just started a series on wisdom a few weeks ago. I wish this had been emphasized when I was raising kids–to teach seeking and applying wisdom in different situations rather than (often man-made) rules. Rules have their place, but they don’t replace wisdom.
I think many of the seeming contradictions in the Bible offer a balance. Too many people lean one way or the other without finding the Bible’s balance or, as you said, learning wisdom for when and how to apply which instruction.
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I remember feeling very boxed in as well during my parenting years. A lot of the “experts” were dispensing advice that was very one size fits all. Wisdom is definitely better than rules!
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One thing I’ve learned (primarily from The Bible Project) is that the Bible is meditation literature, and we miss a lot when we just read a few verses and just take the surface meaning. Much of it, especially the wisdom books, are meant to pondered and examined and “chewed” slowly in order to gain understanding and wisdom. I, too, wish I’d more fully understood the difference between promises and principles when I was a young Christian and young mom.
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What a great insight! It’s true that we race thoughtlessly through our reading sometimes, just to check it off the list. I love the phrase “meditation literature!”
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I love what you said about seeming contradictions in Scripture. I love thinking on those and finding the wisdom in the balance. Lovely post, Michele.
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YES! Actually, I think those seeming contradictions are a strong argument for the veracity and authenticity of the Bible. Nobody went through an cleaned everthing up to make it look “good”—kind of like the way biblical characters are portrayed warts and all!
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[…] 2 Reading Strategies to Get Wisdom From the Word. “The Bible won’t tell you who to date, which car to buy, where to go to college, or whether to accept the job offer on the West Coast. It does, however, offer principles to live by, guard rails to keep readers on the path of wisdom.” […]
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“Reading the hard and seemingly contradictory parts of the Bible requires wisdom—but it yields the gift of more wisdom.” Love this!
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Thanks for reading, Maree! I’m excited to see where my #GetWisdom focus will take me in 2025.
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I will! And some day I have to figure out Pinterest!
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There is definitely a lot of wisdom we can glean from reading scripture and then putting it into practice. The latter is often the difficult part! lol. But it’s where the fruit resides.
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Yes, if everyone only practiced 50% of the truth they say they know…
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