Before I was married, I worshiped with a lovely community of believers in Portland, a church planted in the days following World War 2, in which early services were conducted in Norwegian. Some of my friends and colleagues in ministry were second or third generation church members with roots deeply planted in that community and that worship space. One older friend reminisced about scrubbing old mortar off the recycled bricks used in the church’s construction.
I also remember being envious of their rootedness, the sense of belonging they had the good sense to cherish. They had shared history, a common memory bank of big occasions, and a pastoral roll call that stretched back over decades.
In the providence of God, I now have a long-standing church family, too. I worship every Sunday with people who remember dark-haired Michele leading Sunday school opening with a newborn. Unbelievably, my husband and I have reached the age that the now-octogenarians were when we met. We have mourned with those who were mourning and rejoiced with those who were rejoicing.
There’s no question about it—church can be hard, and it can be complicated. Even so, worshipping God with people you know and love can also be beautiful.
There’s no question about it—church can be hard, and it can be complicated. Even so, worshipping God with people you know and love can also be beautiful.
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Praise the Lord Together
Did you ever notice how many of the calls to worship in the psalms are invitations? I think it’s because God views worship in community as a beautiful thing. Psalm 34:3 is just one example:
Oh, magnify the Lord with me,
and let us exalt his name together!”
As we join in praise with others, we are stimulated to fresh faith. If we land exhausted and wrung out in a pew, we can let ourselves be carried on the praise of our brothers and sisters in Christ.
Looking around any house of worship on a Sunday morning provides a vivid tutorial in the power of forgiveness and the mercy of God to bring healing to broken hearts. If you’re hearing great words of praise from a fellow wayfarer, you can be sure that they have experienced God’s help in a time of suffering or loss. Eugene Peterson wrote, “Praising God is not the naive optimism of the sheltered, but the hearty realism of the delivered.”1
We magnify God’s name because we have found him to be faithful in the past.
We exalt his name in the company of fellow believers because, together, we agree that he alone is worthy of our worship.
If you’re part of a fellowship of believers, hang in there—even if the going gets hard. You’re building something together. When you’re tempted to give up on church, ask yourself, “What story do I want to be able to tell ten years from now?”
If you’re feeling rootless, don’t stop searching for a church that feels like home. In my young adulthood, I thought I was destined forever to a hit-and-run church life. To my great surprise, I’ve received the beautiful gift of worshiping God together with the same church family for over 25 years. But remember this: It happened one Sunday at a time.
Holding You in the Light,

To my great surprise, I’ve received the beautiful gift of worshiping God together with the same church family for over 25 years. But remember this: It happened one Sunday at a time.
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- Praying with the Psalms, Eugene Peterson ↩︎


P.S. I wrote about Psalm 34:1-2 HERE, asking myself, “What is it here that’s making the humble glad?”
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Lovely, simply lovely!
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I believe we’re designed to worship in community with other believers. There is such strength and encouragement in worshipping together. We sing for each other too – helping our brothers and sisters praise and pray and hear the Word. Loved this – thanks for sharing your YouVersion info too!
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Yes, God has designed us NOT to be lone ranger Christians. On the positive side, our fellow believers support and encourage our faith. On the practical side, our response to the sins and idiosyncrasies of others keeps us leaning into grace and reminds us that we’re not nearly as “perfect” as we think we are.
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Having a church family is so important! We are feeling pretty rootless at the moment, following finishing up our last interim. We’ve always found a church home with churches my husband has pastored long term or in the last 10 years where we’ve interimed (is that a word?) It’s been hard to move on this time, and I appreciate your encouragement to keep looking!
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Thank you, Kathy, that you and your husband are willing to serve the body of Christ in transition. You are sacrificing “permanent” roots in order to serve on a temporary basis with a flock that needs a shepherd.
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You are very kind, Michele! Thank you!
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We’ve only been attending our church for about five months, but I missed in-person services so much when I was recuperating from my accident at home. I love that you attend church with people who knew you when you had dark hair and babies.
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Glad to hear that you are back to in person worship! Praying for your continued recovery!
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AMEN to this statement: “As we join in praise with others, we are stimulated to fresh faith.” You are so right Michele. I well remember a difficult season of life when I’d leave Sunday morning worship refilled and strengthened for the week to come. Such a precious gift God has ordained for our sanity!
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I have a feeling that you are now responding to others in your community out of the memory of that gift and the fullness of your own heart.
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I’m in total agreement. Last Sunday night, we had a picnic on the parking lot and then due to some stormy breezes, we camped out in the foyer for a devotion and some a capella singing.. It brought tears to my eyes to hear our voices blended together. I feel like the Lord was smiling down on us. Worshipping together is the best!
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That sounds wonderful! So glad you got to experience it and I’m thankful that you shared it here!
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It’s such a wonderful experience to sing of God’s faithfulness with others whose stories you know. It’s a good reminder that this happens one Sunday at a time.
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Like all the other aspects of our following life—it’s a LONG obedience!
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Beautifully said! It really does happen one Sunday at a time–that’s such an important point and perspective. Having that church family really matters. I belong to a worldwide church, so wherever we go, we have a church family. The quote you shared by Eugene Peterson is so perfect. It’s really the experience, the depending on the Lord in good times but especially in bad, the consistent spiritual work it takes to know Him well enough that you know you can rely on Him always, that changes worshiping Him from naivete to a that realism of the delivered. Visiting from the Talking About it Tuesday linkup.
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“Consistent spiritual work”
I love that phrase because it highlights the daily, not-glamorous work of showing up in the presence of God.
So good to hear from you!
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