Wishing You a Happy, Holy Mother’s Day

Posted on by Michele Morin

Mother’s Day can be rough. A day intended to honor and encourage mothers sometimes spirals into disappointment or feeds our feelings of inadequacy. We compare ourselves to other mothers (either in our real world or in the tiny, square pictures on our phones) and conclude that everyone else is doing it “better,” having more fun, or more effectively meeting their kids’ needs.

This Mother’s Day, I’m asking myself, “What, exactly, do kids really need from their mothers?”

  • Do they need a crafty mom who helps them do magical things with paper plates, tempera paint, and chenille wires?
  • Do they need a sporty mom who plays catch by the hour and puts up a reasonable defense under the basket?
  • Do they need a power mom who organizes neighborhood activities and chairs the parent/teacher organization?

I suppose the way one answers the question depends heavily on one’s goals.
What do you want for your children?

Third John says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” John concluded that the best thing he could have done with his life was to build into the spiritual lives of people in the next generation. He was thrilled to learn that they were walking in the truth and living holy lives.

If your greatest hope is to stand before the Lord one day, together with your family, if you desire for your children to walk in holiness and reap the benefits of a life whose “delight is in the Law of the Lord,” what your children need most is your example of holy living.

What kids really need is a pair of holy parents.
Children need a holy mom.

This Mother’s Day, I’m asking myself, “What, exactly, do kids really need from their mothers?”

What Does It Mean to Be Holy?

Holiness in the Bible comes down to two qualities:

  1. Separation from evil
  2. Devotion to God

Holiness is one of God’s communicable attributes, meaning it’s a characteristic of God that he is pleased for his children to imitate. In our own fallen and creaturely way, we are invited into the honor of displaying God’s moral character in our homes and before our children.

Hebrews 12:14 urges us to “strive… for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.” Strive is a strong verb! Holiness is not our default, and the writer of Hebrews knew we would have to be intentional about it. He knew that we would need God’s help.

Sadly, I’m sure my efforts to imitate God in my home fell far short of striving. Striving means that some days we will fall short, but even in this, our children learn about the gifts of confession and forgiveness (1 John 1:9).

In your pondering of motherhood today, as you sort through memories and plan for the future, I invite you to use these questions as fuel:

Is my conduct separated from evil and devoted to honoring God?
Using that same definition for holiness, are my words holy?
Are my thoughts holy?

Whatever changes you need to make to your conversations, your entertainment choices, your eating and drinking, your use of time and other resources, know for sure that God, who is completely holy—utterly devoted to his own glory and completely separate from the evil in the world—stands ready to support you in your desire for a happy and holy Mother’s Day.

Holding You in the Light,

Hebrews 12:14 urges us to “strive… for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.” STRIVE is a strong verb! Holiness is not our default, and we have to be intentional about it. We need God’s help.

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Published by Michele Morin

Michele Morin is a Bible teacher, writer, reader, and gardener committed to the truth that women can become confident Christ-followers and students of God's Word. She has been married to an unreasonably patient husband for thirty-plus years, and together they have four married sons and a growing fleet of adorable grandchildren. Michele loves hot tea and well-crafted sentences, poems that stop her in her tracks, and days at the ocean with the whole family. She laments biblical illiteracy and advocates for the prudent use of “little minutes.” She blogs at Living Our Days, and you can connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter.

23 thoughts on “Wishing You a Happy, Holy Mother’s Day”

  1. Not sure I know what being holy means. Even the best mother cannot be declared a saint. It’s a trial and error game from day one. I guess the conundrum is that even if we do the best we know how we still have to wait to see how it turns out. That’s when we realize what we might have done better. I think you did fine. Happy Mother’s Day! 

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  4. “What you children need most is your example of holy living.” And that puts everything into perspective, doesn’t it, Michele? ‘Be holy as I am Holy’ and raise your children to hunger and thirst after Me.

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  5. Michele, you’re right. Holiness is not our default mode. We live in a fallen world and we are prone to wander. Thanks for putting this invitation front and center for us. May we be more purposeful in pursuing it. Modeling it.

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  6. A thought-provoking post, Michele. Even as children leave home to embark on their adult lives, our striving for holiness surely continues to influence them. And now with a little more experience and perhaps a bit more wisdom, that influence is a cut above what it once was. God allows redemption of what was with what-now-is-true, especially when accompanied by humility and repentance, as you’ve pointed out.

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      1. I don’t know why I have trouble posting comments on your site and one other person’s. None or multiples!

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  9. It helps to remind ourselves we don’t need to do all the things everyone else (seems) to be doing. And hopefully, even bringing our imperfections and failures to the Lord will encourage our children that they can do the same.

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  10. My parenting and mom philosophy is simple, I brought you into this world, and if you get out of line I’ll take you out!

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  11. Excellent observations, and challenge to parents to examine priorities. As much as I would love for all of my family to live near me, to be successful, and so many other things, what I want more than anything is for them to have a relationship with Jesus and be serving the Lord. Despite my many failures as a mom, I’m grateful that God has always been at work in my life and the lives of my kids.

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