Parents, Have You Found The Balance Between Judgment And Compassion?

Balance Between Judgment And Compassion

Social media hadn't been invented yet (thank heavens!) when my kids were very small, and I had never heard of the term #minime, but if I had, one of my sons would definitely have qualified for the role. Given the similarity of our temperaments, one would imagine a high degree of mutual sympathy, a level… Continue reading Parents, Have You Found The Balance Between Judgment And Compassion?

3 Reasons You Should Go to Church this Sunday

3 Reasons You Should Go to Church this Sunday

The church has fallen on hard times, and there's no denying that some of the bad press has been well-earned by churches with broken leadership structures, a show-biz mentality, and pastors who prey on their congregations more than they pray for them. Even so, it's hard to get through the New Testament without doing business… Continue reading 3 Reasons You Should Go to Church this Sunday

Why Do I Worry All the Time?

Why Do I Worry All the Time?

Here in Midcoast Maine, an alarming real estate phenomenon threatens to deepen my commitment to grumpiness. Storage facilities are springing up in every neighborhood and along every country road. While I celebrate and applaud the entrepreneurial spirit that sees a need in the market and rushes to fill it, I lament the need. (And I… Continue reading Why Do I Worry All the Time?

Raising a Leader: 3 Leadership Qualities Your Kids Need

Raising a Leader

The nursery worker who met us at the door was beaming as she reported her Sunday morning observations. Apparently, our son had lined up all the chairs, assigned seats and roles to each child, and then presided over a “church service” right there in the nursery. “You’ve got a little leader there!” she pronounced. Ever blessed… Continue reading Raising a Leader: 3 Leadership Qualities Your Kids Need

What Is the Reward for Doing Good?

What Is the Reward for Doing Good?

We've all been subjected at one time or another to the cloying behavior of the people-pleaser. What used to be called a "goodie two shoes" is now the more dignified sounding "virtue signaler," but motive is unchanged by time. It's still a desire for approval, a need to gain attention for doing good. Jesus addressed… Continue reading What Is the Reward for Doing Good?

25 Favorite Podcasts and Why I Listen to Them

25 Favorite Podcasts and Why I Listen to Them

In my April newsletter, I shared my Desert Island Bookshelf, and in the wake of that, one reader said she'd be interested to know what podcasts I follow regularly. I LOVE reader recommendations, so today, I'm sharing 25 podcasts that land in my feed. I'll keep my comments brief, but I'll share my reason for… Continue reading 25 Favorite Podcasts and Why I Listen to Them

Prayers from a Mother’s Heart Because We’re All Mothers Together

Prayers from a Mother's Heart

When I have visiting grandchildren on a Sunday morning, sometimes I get to sit with them in the church nursery. It's a break for their mother and a treat for me. On a Sunday morning nursery date with Ruthie, we had a packed house with every rocking chair occupied and mums sitting on the floor… Continue reading Prayers from a Mother’s Heart Because We’re All Mothers Together

Use the Great Gift That’s Been Given to All Believers!

Use the Great Gift That's Been Given to All Believers!

For me, 2024 has been a year full of opportunities for in-person teaching with lots of invitations to share God's Word here in the great state of Maine. For a writer with mostly invisible online readers, the experience of seeing and interacting with my students is life-giving, and I've loved the personal connections. What most… Continue reading Use the Great Gift That’s Been Given to All Believers!

Jesus Answers the Question: What Does it Really Mean to be Righteous?

What Does It Really Mean to Be Righteous

I've lived through a good many phases of interpreting the Christian life, and maybe you remember some of them, too. In the 80s, young Christian women like me were encouraged to be fervent and verbal about our faith. It helped if somewhere along the way you'd experienced a Damascus Road turnaround with a gripping story.… Continue reading Jesus Answers the Question: What Does it Really Mean to be Righteous?

Wondering How to Pray with Wisdom for Your Adult Children?

Wondering How to Pray with Wisdom for Your Adult Children?

Roots and wings are the gifts Christian parents pass on to our children. We establish rules, give them responsibilities that build confidence and skill, and water those deep roots with lots of love and prayer, knowing that strengthening wings will soon carry our children away from home, out of reach of our influence and our protection. In my prayers for the four young men who are so close to my heart, I’m taking my cues from the book of Philippians.