How Can I Love My Given Life When It’s Not What I Had Planned?

Love My Given Life

The baby wakes up an hour earlyโ€”the hour you had planned for quiet study and prayer.The teen driver totals your car on her way to a ballgame.The job interview seems to go so well that you let yourself hope, but the postion goes to another candidate. In ways that are both trivial and seismic, life… Continue reading How Can I Love My Given Life When It’s Not What I Had Planned?

Favorite Books 2023โ€”The Best and Brightest from My Reading Year

Favorite Books 2023

Every year, I set a goal of reading 52 booksโ€”one per week, and I usually read at least that many. Then I show up here with a weekly book review. According to Goodreads, I read 87 books in 2023, and I'm going to cap off this year of reading and writing with a reflective post… Continue reading Favorite Books 2023โ€”The Best and Brightest from My Reading Year

A Merry Memorandum and an Important Resource for Epiphany

Merry Memorandum and Resource for Epiphany

Posted with thanks, unabashed hero worship, and apologies to the memory of E.B.White (7/11/1899 โ€“ 10/1/1985), author of Charlotteโ€™s Web and other beloved tales.   He wrote โ€œMemorandum,โ€ originally published in Harperโ€™s Magazine in October of 1941 and then compiled into One Manโ€™s Meat in 1942, along with numerous other exquisite essays from Whiteโ€™s writing life.  Please celebrate with me the beauty of… Continue reading A Merry Memorandum and an Important Resource for Epiphany

Overcome Christmas Discouragement by Remembering Your Powerful Why

Overcome Christmas Discouragement by Remembering Your Powerful Why

Part Four: Carols I Want My Grandchildren to Know Christmas baking here in the Morin compound involves eleven different recipes. Most of the goodies are either carried or mailed offsite, and having a generous supply on hand makes party food, unexpected guests, and random gifting quite stress-freeโ€”even enjoyable. But looking at the list at the… Continue reading Overcome Christmas Discouragement by Remembering Your Powerful Why

The Christmas Story No One Wants to Talk About

The Christmas Story No One Wants to Talk About

(The voice of a grieving mother after Herod's Slaughter of the Innocents based on the biblical accounts in Matthew 2:16-18; Jeremiah 31:15; Isaiah 61:1-3) There was no angel appearance to my husband -- No timely warning granted for us to flee the danger and death of Herod's sword. Know that I, too, would have fled.… Continue reading The Christmas Story No One Wants to Talk About

Christmas Hope for the Fears of All the Years

Christmas Hope for the Fears of All the Years

Part Three: Carols I Want My Grandchildren to Know The word hope has been gutted by misuse to the point where it's a flimsy thing, a wish thrown out into the universe, a desire held close to one's heart. Christmas allows us to fill the word hope back up again with true biblical meaning. The… Continue reading Christmas Hope for the Fears of All the Years

Two Strategies for Navigating in a World of Temporary Connections

Two Strategies For Navigating In A World Of Temporary Connections

I was sitting on the attic floor sorting through hand-me-downs when the phone rang, and a bridge began to crumble. Through tears, via a clunky cordless phone, my friend dropped the bomb. She and her family would be leaving our churchโ€”the church where our kids had misbehaved together and where she and I had moved… Continue reading Two Strategies for Navigating in a World of Temporary Connections

Wishing You a Silent and Holy Christmas in the Kingdom of Noise

Silent and Holy Christmas in the Kingdom of Noise

Part Two: Carols I Want My Grandchildren to Know We live in a world described by C.S. Lewis's devil Screwtape as "The Kingdom of Noise." When we're not being assaulted by ringing phones or pinging notifications, we have podcasts and playlists pouring into our ears as if listening to something might actually be our real… Continue reading Wishing You a Silent and Holy Christmas in the Kingdom of Noise

Is There a Place for Ambition in the Life of a Christian Woman?

Ambition in the Life of a Christian Woman

I had begun to picture cobwebs growing in the corners of my email inbox, and my impatience was rivaled only by my disappointment. After two years of watching my speaking ministry grow, the invitations suddenly stopped coming.  Of course, I kept all my fraught feelings to myself. How could I share this particular sadness without… Continue reading Is There a Place for Ambition in the Life of a Christian Woman?

It’s Christmas Time! What Is Your Hope? What Are You Waiting For?

It's Christmas Time! What Are You Waiting For

Part 1--Carols I Want My Grandchildren to Know Expectation and Christmas are long-time friends. Tantalizing gifts under a sparkling tree, anticipated gatherings with loved ones, seasonal parties, and special menus that happen only in December add to the expectational cocktail that has become North American Christmas. Taken in reasonable doses, this festive anticipation fuels a… Continue reading It’s Christmas Time! What Is Your Hope? What Are You Waiting For?