3 Wise Filters that Will Improve Your Entertainmentย Choices

Paulโ€™s words are a call to hand over my check lists, my grumpy tirades, and my opinion of your entertainment choices and to submit every decision to the scrutiny of God most holy.

Greasy fingers met in a communal popcorn bowl, and laughter overpowered the details of dialogue: โ€œHey, somebody rewind! I missed that line!โ€ It was family movie night, and the flickering image on the screen played second fiddle to the allure of an extended bedtime. With cold pizza congealing at room temperature on the coffee table,… Continue reading 3 Wise Filters that Will Improve Your Entertainment Choices

Whatever Made You Think the Christian Life Would Be Easy?

Whatever Made You Think the Christian Life Would Be Easy?

A studio upright sat by the door, but the small piano was truly the centerpiece of Helen's apartment. A widow transitioning from married to single, from missionary to retiree, she poured sadness out the tips of her fingers, and the wealth of words absorbed over seven decades found their way into melancholy melodies. Helen introduced… Continue reading Whatever Made You Think the Christian Life Would Be Easy?

Recovering Hospitality as a Vital Aspect of the Christian Life

Recovering Hospitality as a Vital Aspect of the Christian Life

My first hospitality disaster looked like a blueberry pie, but once I cut into it, I could see it was clearly a blueberry soup enclosed in a pie crust. I hope I served it with ice cream, but even if I did, nothing can take the sting out of that memory. Thanks be to God,… Continue reading Recovering Hospitality as a Vital Aspect of the Christian Life

3 Reasons You Should Go to Church this Sunday

3 Reasons You Should Go to Church this Sunday

The church has fallen on hard times, and there's no denying that some of the bad press has been well-earned by churches with broken leadership structures, a show-biz mentality, and pastors who prey on their congregations more than they pray for them. Even so, it's hard to get through the New Testament without doing business… Continue reading 3 Reasons You Should Go to Church this Sunday

Raising a Leader: 3 Leadership Qualities Your Kids Need

Raising a Leader

The nursery worker who met us at the door was beaming as she reported her Sunday morning observations. Apparently, our son had lined up all the chairs, assigned seats and roles to each child, and then presided over a โ€œchurch serviceโ€ right there in the nursery. โ€œYouโ€™ve got a little leader there!โ€ she pronounced. Ever blessed… Continue reading Raising a Leader: 3 Leadership Qualities Your Kids Need

Wondering How to Pray with Wisdom for Your Adult Children?

Wondering How to Pray with Wisdom for Your Adult Children?

Roots and wings are the gifts Christian parents pass on to our children. We establish rules, give them responsibilities that build confidence and skill, and water those deep roots with lots of love and prayer, knowing that strengthening wings will soon carry our children away from home, out of reach of our influence and our protection. In my prayers for the four young men who are so close to my heart, Iโ€™m taking my cues from the book of Philippians.

Mud Season Prayers: There Is No Mess Too Big for God to Cleanย Up

There's no mess too big for God to clean up!

Whatever time in your familyโ€™s life feels like mud season to you, donโ€™t let yourself get stuck! Turn your frustration and anxiety into arrow prayers, and remind your heart that there is no mess too big for God to clean up.

The Gift of Grace that Grows from Our Challenges

The Gift of Grace that Grows from Our Challenges

Maybe I haven't been listening carefully, but I don't recall ever hearing someone say, "It was only after my huge success that I finally got my priorities straight. It was only after the big book deal and the first million in the bank that I cried out to God with sincerity." Isn't it true that… Continue reading The Gift of Grace that Grows from Our Challenges

Experience (and Embody!) the Miracle of God’s Presence

Experience (and Embody!) the Miracle of God's Presence

When I listen with just my ears, my heart can be ten thousand miles away. Just ask my grandchildren. They know the difference. โ€œBam, LOOK!โ€ they demand until I turn my face toward the block structure, the moth in the jar, or the crayoned masterpiece. A woman on a mission, I need words tattooed on… Continue reading Experience (and Embody!) the Miracle of God’s Presence