Whatever Made You Think the Christian Life Would Be Easy?

Whatever Made You Think the Christian Life Would Be Easy?

A studio upright sat by the door, but the small piano was truly the centerpiece of Helen's apartment. A widow transitioning from married to single, from missionary to retiree, she poured sadness out the tips of her fingers, and the wealth of words absorbed over seven decades found their way into melancholy melodies. Helen introduced… Continue reading Whatever Made You Think the Christian Life Would Be Easy?

Do You Really Know How to Live By the Golden Rule?

Do You Really Know How to Live By the Golden Rule?

The Golden Rule as Jesus has phrased it is one more example of Jesusโ€™s rejection of bare-minimum obedience. Jesus has called us to a deeper obedience whose focus is character and motiveโ€”not simply actions.

Encouraging Our Adult Children to Practice a Mature Faith

Encouraging Our Adult Children to Practice a Mature Faith

One of the greatest gifts of my life is my grown-up kids. We have fun together, and we also engage in conversations about important topics. I can feel my role in the family changing as everyone takes on increasingly responsible positions in his own world. While Iโ€™m sure they would each say their motherโ€™s communication… Continue reading Encouraging Our Adult Children to Practice a Mature Faith

Wondering How to Pray with Wisdom for Your Adult Children?

Wondering How to Pray with Wisdom for Your Adult Children?

Roots and wings are the gifts Christian parents pass on to our children. We establish rules, give them responsibilities that build confidence and skill, and water those deep roots with lots of love and prayer, knowing that strengthening wings will soon carry our children away from home, out of reach of our influence and our protection. In my prayers for the four young men who are so close to my heart, Iโ€™m taking my cues from the book of Philippians.

An Argument for the Importance of Silence in Your Noisy Life

An Argument for the Importance of Silence in Your Noisy Life

Howโ€™s YOUR relationship with the discipline of silence? Twice in Psalm 62, David exhorts his own soul to โ€œwait in silence,โ€ and 21st-century believers need to have the same conversation with our souls.

When You Are Wondering if Spring Will Ever Come

When You Are Wondering if Spring Will Ever Come

Waiting for spring, hanging off the northeast end of the U.S. mainland, itโ€™s a challenge to get into an Easter frame of mind. The dark is still holding sway over the light, and resurrection-thinking requires a muscular faith. Although the calendar tells me that spring will come, this hope in a future date can seem like a… Continue reading When You Are Wondering if Spring Will Ever Come

What Makes a Rich and Meaningful Devotional Life?

What Makes a Rich and Meaningful Devotional Life?

One of the most frequent questions I've been asked over the years (and one I struggled with myself as a young woman) is this:โ€‚"I know I'm supposed to be having a devotional time with God every day. What does that look like?" The short answer is that there's no short answer to that question! My… Continue reading What Makes a Rich and Meaningful Devotional Life?

Discovering the Love of God on the Pathway of Adversity

Discovering the Love of God on the Pathway of Adversity

I've been writing obliquely about my Parkinson's disease diagnosis for the past year or more, but today the story takes center stage in an interview with Lois Flowers. She asks probing questions that tease out the details of my story, but more than thatโ€”it's a conversation about what C.S. Lewis would have called The Problem… Continue reading Discovering the Love of God on the Pathway of Adversity

The Urgent Difference Between Legalism and Faithful Spiritual Practices

Legalism And Faithful Spiritual Practices (1)

We've all met the woman who treats her daily quiet time like a lucky rabbit's foot or a spiritual vitamin pill. And we've heard from the guy who announces financial blessings in direct proportion to how long he fasts or prays. In an article at Christianity Today, James Bryan Smith pressed on that fragile boundary… Continue reading The Urgent Difference Between Legalism and Faithful Spiritual Practices

A Merry Memorandum and an Important Resource for Epiphany

Merry Memorandum and Resource for Epiphany

Posted with thanks, unabashed hero worship, and apologies to the memory of E.B.White (7/11/1899 โ€“ 10/1/1985), author of Charlotteโ€™s Web and other beloved tales.   He wrote โ€œMemorandum,โ€ originally published in Harperโ€™s Magazine in October of 1941 and then compiled into One Manโ€™s Meat in 1942, along with numerous other exquisite essays from Whiteโ€™s writing life.  Please celebrate with me the beauty of… Continue reading A Merry Memorandum and an Important Resource for Epiphany